October 17, 2023 - Wednesday October 11, 2023 is a day I will never forget. Getting a call from the nurse saying you were headed to the ER, I started making calls and sending the troops to be with you. I immediately started praying, because I knew you had weathered a few storms before and came out like a champ. So, in my heart, I was praying this would be one of those times. Sadly, this turned out to be your final ride.
Auntie, I had my initial moment of breaking down. I cried uncontrollably until my phone started to ring over and over. I didn’t answer but it gave me a moment of clarity. I felt like you were calling me to say, “Gabby, get up! Get yourself together! There are things that need to be done.” We had some difficult conversations about what life would be like when you’re gone. Well, Auntie, that day has come and I’m struggling. But, I know you’re in a better place, no more pain, and no more suffering. And that, gives me comfort.
Over the years, you shared intimate details of your personal life with me, the highs and the lows. Auntie, you were my go to person, because I knew you would always keep it real. You offered me your ears if I needed you to listen. You were willing to grab your purse and go fight anybody who dared to hurt me in any way. Even at 50 years old, if you thought someone had upset me, you would offer me your gun. That would always crack me up and I would say, “Now, Auntie, I’m not trying to go to jail.” And together, we laughed.
Before I say my final good-bye, I want you to know how much you brought to my life. You poured into me as a child. You supported me, you encouraged me, and most of all, you loved me. Auntie, you told me recently, I am one of the things you are most proud of in your life, and that warmed my heart. You talked about some things in your life that you weren’t able to accomplish and the joy you felt watching me chase my dreams. Well Auntie, I am the woman I am today, because I was raised by two of the strongest, hard-working women I have ever met. My Moma and YOU. Thank you, Auntie for believing in me. Thank you for investing in me. Thank you for everything you did for me. I love you! I love you! I love you! Until I see you again, now enjoy your rest, you’ve earned it.
From Gabby
