By Neal Murphy

“Being In-laws” by Neal Murphy

August 26, 2024 - Our daughter, Kay, married in 1979 while in college at Liberty, Missouri. Her new husband, Marti, was also a college student. Being “in-laws” was a new role for my wife and me, and we wanted to get off to a good start to impress our new son-in-law. After the wedding the bride and groom left for their honeymoon. We were left with the task of transporting all the wedding gifts from the church to their new apartment approximately twenty-five miles away. This necessitated our renting a U-Haul trailer to accomplish this task.

“Clara’s Culinary Calamities” by Neal Murphy

August 2, 2024 - When we were married in 1958 Clara knew nothing about cooking. Since I knew a lot about eating she made it her mission to learn all about preparing food fit for a king. I knew she must have thought of me as a king because she was always presenting me with burnt offerings. My, how things have changed over the years. I no longer receive burnt offerings from her as she has become a great cook.

"The Disappearing Family Doctor" by Neal Murphy

July 22, 2024 - I can recall that back in my early days in San Augustine, Texas there were four family doctors who treated our family at various times.  I recall that their names were Dr. Rulfs, Dr. Ellington, Dr. Brake, and Dr. Bennett.

I remember that on several occasions I became ill and my father, Cecil, called Dr. Brake to come to our house and check me out.  I still recall his rather large, black, doctoring bag which contained his exam equipment.  On rare terrifying occasions he would give me a shot to help cure what ailed me.

“The Disappearing Barbershops” by Neal Murphy

July 8, 2024 - I have been thinking recently about the disappearance of barbershops in our town. I can recall that during the 1930’s and 1940’s there were three barbershops in our small town, perhaps even into the 1950’s.

The first barbershop of record in San Augustine was the Lockhart Barber Shop located at 112 North Harrison. In a three story building, the facility was also a tailor shop and a storage house for furniture owned by C. J. Childers. The building was owned by city mayor Lamar Blount, and was a total loss when it burned in October of 1919.

“Bury The Hatchet” by Neal Murphy

June 24, 2024 - So you and your friend have had an argument.  There appears to be no solution in which each can save face.  What can you do?  We have all found ourselves in situations in which severe difference of opinions have resulted in total severance of contact.  Perhaps the answer would be what the American Indians did, bury the hatchet.  But, is this a figure of speech, or a literal action?

"Kids and Church" by Neal Murphy

May 3, 2024 - It seems that children see things regarding church through kid’s eyes, and they don’t always hear it right. One of my earliest memories is that of being in church with my father, Cecil. I recall that I kept trying to talk out loud during the service and Dad would tell me to be quiet. After church Dad was holding me in his arms when Bro. Russell Smith walked up and asked me how I liked the service. I replied, “Well, I didn’t like it.” Bro. Smith inquired as to why I didn’t. I told him, “Because nobody gets to say anything but you.”

“The Whole Nine Yards” by Neal Murphy

February 23, 2024 - I heard someone say that they had purchased a new Ford Galaxy with “all nine yards of goodies”. I once heard a woman say that she really gave that other woman a piece of her mind, giving her the “whole nine yards”. I am sure we have all used that phrase from time to time. But, what does it really mean? So we are giving some one or some thing nine yards of what? As with most of these sayings, its history is unknown.

“The Only Factor” by Neal Murphy

February 9, 2024 - I did not know it in the middle 1940s when I was in elementary school in San Augustine, Texas, but I was breaking the law.  In fact all we students were lawbreakers.  Some of you might recall this event that the courts now say was very detrimental to our very souls.  Yet, most of us grew up to be intelligent and useful citizens in spite of the learned judges’ opinions.

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